Against My Advice, My Brother Is Going to College

Whatever disappointed him about high school is unlikely to be remedied by a university curriculum more interested in global citizenship than civilizational inheritance.

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My youngest brother graduated from high school last weekend and, against my advice, will be heading to college this fall.

“I think it’s good for the career I want,” he told me.

He wants to study ocean engineering at the University of Southern Mississippi (USM), my alma mater. He dreams of a life somewhere along a coastline. And to be fair, ocean engineering is at least a more defensible major than whatever obscure grievance studies programs currently populate college and university course catalogs. But I don’t believe this is a better route than some of the alternatives.

There are plenty of specialized pathways into maritime work that bypass the traditional university model. Maritime academies, trade programs, offshore industry certifications, and apprenticeships all exist. In many cases, maritime academy graduates working in commercial shipping out-earn traditional engineering graduates by a considerable margin.

I also thought that watching his older brother—my other younger brother—struggle to find work, even after earning a chemical engineering degree from Mississippi State, would scare him straight.

It has not.

Part of the reason he is undeterred, I suspect, is that his high school—the same one I graduated from—seems to define success by how efficiently it moves students into higher education. Principals, guidance counselors, and teachers alike treated college not as one option among many, but as the assumed destination of any competent student.

“From my experience,” he told me, “I don’t believe that high school prepared me for the world. It’s always felt like preparation for college. Every teacher says, ‘Some things are not going to fly in college,’ as if every student in the classroom is headed there.”

His K–12 schooling, just like mine, left little room for anything deeper than the next exam. At no point, for example, was he required to read the Constitution or the Declaration of Independence in full.

“We only read excerpts,” he told me—and only because he took AP Government. He is disappointed by this.

With all this pressure toward college, I suspect my brother has been led to believe, as I once was, that college is where real education begins—that it will make up for the disappointment of high school. Maybe some part of him even imagines that college is where he will finally encounter the great ideas, arguments, and texts that shaped Western civilization, things he is naturally curious about.

But whatever has left him disappointed with his high school education, I do not think college will remedy it. An education that Allan Bloom might have appreciated is not waiting for him at college, at least not at my alma mater.

USM’s core curriculum emphasizes “World Civilizations” rather than Western civilization. Its 2025-29 STRATEGIC PLAN invokes terms such as “global citizens” and “diversity.” But words such as truth, wisdom, and beauty are absent from its mission statement.

USM does have some scholarly strengths. The Dale Center for the Study of War & Society provides students access to military archives, and the Center for the Study of the Gulf South covers subjects ranging from the Civil War to the Civil Rights Movement. Plus, the political science department has good professors and one Western civilization course, though students are tragically forced to study abroad in Rome. Won’t someone please think of the pasta?

So no, my brother will not be intellectually starved for want of competent professors in these departments if, say, he changes his major or happens to land in the right classrooms while fulfilling the core curriculum. Nor will he encounter the sort of revolutionary radicalism common on many elite campuses.

But even with its strengths, the undertone of USM’s core curriculum is that Western civilization has mostly been one long exercise in exploitation and that educated people are expected to spend their time apologizing for it.

Painful also is that even if he finds himself in upper-level humanities courses, he will likely not be confronting the foundational texts of Western civilization—or any civilization—directly. More often, he will be reading academics’ interpretations of civilization, usually through the framework that the West, capitalism, Christianity, and America are primarily engines of exploitation. The Half Has Never Been Told was just one of many such reading assignments.

And I won’t dive too deep into the English department except to say my brother is about to get the full black feminist literary experience. Bloodchild, a charming little tale about giant alien insects impregnating human males through their chest cavities, was considered essential reading when I was there. Shakespeare? That’s extracurricular, brother.

Of course, I am not discouraging him from attending college because I think my brother is incapable of succeeding there—quite the opposite. But I am discouraging it because a university curriculum and an actual education are not always the same thing, and four years is a long time to mistake one for the other.

Still, I have high hopes for him. He will almost certainly graduate debt-free, which is fortunate since he has chosen a comparatively less lucrative route toward life on the ocean. And much like he did in high school, I am sure he will earn straight As and graduate with a strong GPA, which should help if he later decides to truly waste his time by going to grad school. (I’m kidding).

He is also, I should say, a genuinely curious person who I know will seek knowledge from outside the campus gates. And I do not say that merely because he is my brother, but because when I tested his civics knowledge by asking him to name three Supreme Court cases, he immediately rattled off Brown v. Board of Education, Gideon v. Wainwright, and Engel v. Vitale. He was also able to explain key facts about the Constitution and, unlike many students, actually reads his Bible.

“How many senators are in the U.S. Senate?” I also asked him. For that question, he needed “a hot minute,” but eventually answered 100.

He will be fine.

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  1. I don’t disagree in general, but two caveats that need mentioning:

    “Maritime academies…exist.”

    True, but they are oriented towards the Merchant Marine, training crews for American flagged freighters and tankers, the large ships that transport things to and from places like Puerto Rico and Hawaii.

    As I understand it, the engineering training is related to the engine room of a large ship, how to operate and maintain the diesel engine, the electric generators, the steam system, which is still used for hot water and other stuff, and other mechanical things.

    When I think of “marine engineering”, I think of things like building piers, bridges over water (essentially the same thing), breakwaters, sea walls, and even these asinine offshore windmills. It could also drift into marine ecology and the plants and animals that inhabit mud flats, and preserving them, and the rest.

    It could even involve how to prevent oil spills and how to clean them up. The Europeans are actually doing some pretty innovative things with that.

    While I’m not saying that Maritime college won’t touch on these things, I don’t think he’ll like the focus on sailing the high seas. Most colleges have a mandatory cruise to Europe and other shorter cruises on their own ship.

    The other thing I would strongly encourage him to look into is the US Coast Guard academy in Connecticut. I don’t know how one applies, the entrance requirements or application deadline, but this is like West Point for the Coast Guard. They graduate as junior officers who do everything from environmental protection to drug investigations to fishing idiots with more than brains out of the ocean. I believe that this is a free education, although there is a post graduation service commitment.

    And there’s nothing wrong with a 20 year career in the US Coast Guard, I believe it’s the same retirement as the other services. Of course his first posting might be Alaska and I’m not sure how much of a choice one ever gets about postings so that’s something to ask about, but I would look at the Coast Guard Academy before someplace like Maine or Mass Maritime if his interest are what you say they are.

    “In many cases, maritime academy graduates working in commercial shipping out-earn traditional engineering graduates by a considerable margin.”

    IF they get a ship.

    The problem is that foreign flagships do not have to hire an American crew, and that cruise from other countries work a whole lot cheaper than American crews do. Remember the ship that hit the bridge in Baltimore, her crew was from India and somewhere else, while they had a local pilot aboard (actually two), they were the only Americans.

    The Jones Act stipulates that if a ship goes from one American port to another American port, she must have an American crew. Without this, we wouldn’t have any merchant marine at all, and there’s a serious national defense necessity of having a merchant marine, even in the world of C5 airplanes.

    So the American merchant marine goes between Puerto Rico and the mainland, Hawaii and the mainland, and does a lot of the coastal trade — e.g. bringing distillate (e.g. gasoline) from a Gulf Coast refinery to Boston Harbor. The American merchant marine also supplies, US Navy and some extent the other branches.

    These are well paying jobs — if you can get them. They’re also tough on family life because they’re six months on – six months off, and the only coastline they ever see is entering or leaving a port.

    The other thing to be aware of here are licensing requirements. I believe that most of the good jobs in the oil industry require an engineering license, usually chemical engineering. Obtaining such a license is a absolutely legitimate reason to go to college — assuming that such a license is marketable.

  2. Little Brother may be do best well to ignore both cynical Big Brother and also the nihilists in the humanities. Get the marine engineering degree and get the career started. And ignore the poison ideas about the achievements of the West. Little Brother will find unique riches in the engineering program.

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